No one likes to be ignored. Being ignored feels like someone is neglecting you as a human being because we all need attention to a certain degree.
When someone you don’t really know ignores you, it’s
not such a big deal because you’re not that emotionally attached to that
specific person.
But, if someone in your circle of friends or family
ignores you, you start panicking because you don’t know what to do or how to
feel about it. It is especially painful if the person who ignores you is your
husband.
MY HUSBAND IGNORES ME
If you feel like your husband ignores you to
the extent that you don’t remember the last time the two of you had a decent
conversation, you have a problem. Do you feel humiliated thinking that
something’s wrong with you?
Or you feel like he isn’t paying attention anymore
like he used to?
Lack of communication is a serious issue when it comes
to marriage because it is the essence of your bond. If you two cannot
communicate properly, you’re subconsciously creating a gap in your marriage.
Depression, humiliation and being upset are all the
symptoms of a lack of communication. So, if you want to save your marriage,
finding a solution is of the utmost importance.
6 WAYS TO MAKE HIM OPEN UP TO YOU
1. Find his interests to make him more
engaged in a conversation
Men are really tough when it comes to communicating.
If you want him to open up to you, you have to find a way to make him more
engaged in conversations. First, think about his interests and hobbies.
Are there any specific activities that he enjoys doing
in his free time? Does he collect vintage toy cars perhaps or stamps? Does he
play the guitar? If yes, ask him about the progress of that certain activity to
show him that you’re interested in what is going on in his life.
If you’re not sure how to initiate a conversation on a
specific activity, just Google it beforehand. I’m sure he will be more than
happy to start talking to you because when we are passionate about something,
our brains simply light up at the mention of that specific thing.
The key is to make the topic interesting to him. If
you do that, half of your job is done.
2. Don’t interrupt him while he’s talking
Once you get your man to talk, do not interrupt him
because he may retreat again, and all your effort will be in vain. So, the best
option is to let him speak, and only intervene if you sense that he is about to
stop because men are really case sensitive when it comes to being interrupting.
Men are really hard to open up, but once they’re
engaged in a conversation they enjoy, you will not be able to stop them.
3. Make him laugh
Everyone thinks that only women are those who should
be laughing at their partners’ jokes. But, the truth is men like to be treated
the same way. Remember the time when you two started dating.
He probably enjoyed making you laugh all the time
because it makes men feel like they’ve accomplished something. They want to
feel like that, too.
If a woman makes a man laugh, she has won his heart
instantly. No matter how mad he is and no matter at which stage of ignoring he
is, he will not be able to stop himself from laughing.
It doesn’t have to be big. Simply make a funny comment
about that guy on news or something similar. He will immediately cheer up
because laughter is very soothing, and it deletes all the negative emotions he
may be going through at the moment.
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4. Surprise him!
Even though he’s ignoring you, do not give up on the
idea of surprising him. Men like to be surprised just as women do.
It doesn’t matter if it is something trivial like his
favorite bread or something spicier like a new sexy outfit. I know it is hard
to even think of sex games when he is ignoring you, but if you don’t try, you
can never know solve anything.
Join him in the shower, and I’m sure that he will not
be able to reject you. Revive the old passion, and he will not only talk, he
will start eating out of your hands.
Men are weird creatures, and in most cases, the main
reason of their retreat is because they sense the lack of passion in your
marriage. You can prevent this from happening by spicing up your sex life from
time to time.
That way he will be unable to ignore you because he
knows that he will not get a piece of his favorite cake – you.
I know this is a little bit sneaky, but it’s how they
function, and we just have to adapt to their shifty nature.
5. Talk to him when he least expects it
In order to make him open up to you, you have to talk
to your man when he least expects it. For example, he’s washing the car or
perhaps the dishes and you subtly ask him random questions like: Did
you like the game?
You can use this situation to ask him more important
questions – questions concerning why he is ignoring you. If you ask something
that he isn’t expecting, he will subconsciously answer you without even
realizing it.
But, don’t create a list of serious questions that
you’re about to ask him when he least expect it. Don’t overdo it because he
will get scared, and the situation will get even worse.
If you call your man to talk to him face to face, he
will most definitely get scared of you and the possible conversation. Men don’t
like direct conversations because they always think you’re going to attack them
for something they have done.
Because of this, you have to engage him in indirect
conversations as described above. You have to lure him into your cave. Just be
tactful and always one step ahead.
Read his mind, and connect the dots. Think like a
psychologist, and play dirty if you need to, if it is going to make him open up
to you.
6. Be open to forgiveness
If you succeed in making him open up to you, please be
open to forgiveness. Whatever the reason be, I’m sure he will be more than
happy to try to make it up to you.
When he tells you that he is sorry, don’t be stubborn
and ignore him just to show that you can. Passive aggressive behavior is the
worst enemy of marriage. If you want to save your marriage (and I know you do),
then you have to learn to be open to forgiveness.
There will always be someone who sins and the other
who has to forgive. Perhaps next time you’ll be the one who will ignore him and
after, expect him to forgive you.
Remember that marriage is all about compromising with
each other. It is a complex construction that consists of love, sins and
forgivenesses.
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