What would you do if you recognize the signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore, especially if you’ve been with him for a long time, if you two have kids, and if you thought you’d grow old with him?
What would you give to save your marriage? There are
no easy solutions, but there are those that work.
I would say that both women and men have their own
ways to get over a divorce, but since women are more sensitive, they suffer
more than men.
I know it’d be great to be with the same person you
are married to until the day you die, but unfortunately, that’s not always
possible.
Sometimes it happens that you end up being married and
after a while of what you thought was a sure thing, you start asking yourself,
“Does he even love me ?”
There are a lot of factors that contribute to divorces
and lack of love, but you should know that if you really care about someone,
there are no problems that you can’t get over.
Actually, “Never give up that easily” is the best
relationship advice I can give you.
I present you some of the most common warning signs
that made these women come to the important realization: “He doesn’t love me
anymore !” So read carefully!
He doesn’t communicate with you much
If your husband has stopped communicating with you and
you feel that something’s amiss, it’s a sign that he is slowly falling out of
love with you .
I know some of you will say that lack of communication
doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, but a woman’s gut is something you
should never neglect, because in 99.99% of cases, it’s correct.
If you notice that the two of you just keep quiet in
the house while you’re doing your thing and he’s doing his, that’s just a
signal of the beginning of the relationship problems .
To save your marriage, you can try to talk to him. In
the end, if you don’t try, you’ll never know whether or not you could’ve done
something about it.
If this is happening for the first time , my
suggestion is not to be mean or anything, but tell him openly that you don’t
feel good in a relationship without open communication.
As a possible solution, ask him if he’s willing to
work on it with you.
If he says he will try, you should respect that, but
if he doesn’t give a damn about what you have to say, you know what your next
step should be.
Although it’s easy to say to someone, “leave him,”
it’s not that easy to actually do it.
Even though you’re already brokenhearted and angry
with disappointment, some warm feelings are still present.
So please, if this happens, cut the cord as soon as
possible and try to keep your self-esteem .
He’s bored with you
It’s normal that in a long-term relationship there
will be times when you’ll be bored with your spouse, and you just need to do
some interesting things with him.
But if you see that your husband is bored only when he
is with you and not when he’s doing his own thing, that’s a sign that something
is terribly wrong.
Maybe there is another woman in his life and he is
only thinking about her.
Maybe he’s coming up with ways to meet her as soon as
possible, and everything you say is boring to him.
Or perhaps there are problems he’s going through, but
if he doesn’t talk to you and if you annoy him every time you say something,
that’s not a good sign .
Sadly, based on what you’re reading, it seems that
your relationship doesn’t have that much time left.
If this behavior continues over a long period, it is a
bad sign that your husband doesn’t love you anymore.
You shouldn’t put up with this behavior because it’s
not something you deserve.
If you’re giving him all your love and affection and
he shows complete disinterest in making you happy, a man like that is not
worthy of being in your life.
Basically, the point is, it wouldn’t be much waste to
kick him out of your life.
He fights with you all the time
If you can no longer have any normal conversation with
him and he says that you are at fault for all the problems between you two,
it’s likely that he has no problem in making you feel bad.
This is a serious red flag that maybe he doesn’t love
you anymore. You should check if this is something that will be present in your
life for only a short time or if it will continue for longer.
Whatever you do, don’t let your happiness slip through
your fingers. Instead, try to save your relationship by asking him
about the reasons he feels that way.
If he still cares, he’ll be happy that you asked, and
he will work on it.
Getting help from a marriage counselor is a move
that’s helped a lot of troubled couples who just needed a push toward a happier
future.
But if he refuses to do anything about it, then he
doesn’t feel anything about you, and it is time to dump him.
You should know that staying with a man like that will
hurt you more than leaving him.
Staying with him will never heal your broken heart .
By leaving him, on the other hand, there’s a chance for you to heal much faster
than you thought.
You don’t deserve someone who will only pay attention
to you when he’s in the mood, one who will ignore you every time you need him.
That is not what true love really is – don’t ever
forget that. No matter how much you love him, show him that you will be okay on
your own. Show him that you don’t need him to complete you.
He doesn’t put any effort into your
relationship
For some time now, you are the only one who’s been
putting some effort into your relationship.
He doesn’t want to do anything nice for you, and he
doesn’t even want to talk about it.
This is a sign of disrespect – something no woman
should put up with.
Disrespect is one of the strongest signals that point
to an unhappy marriage .
If he doesn’t want to have a good life with you, tell
him that you’re not the one who will bear all of the relationship
responsibilities on your back.
Let him know this is his wake-up call, and if he
doesn’t want to change, he can leave because you’ll feel much better on your
own than with a toxic guy who doesn’t even give a damn about you.
You have to think about your own well-being .
The point of every relationship is to have someone who will take care of you,
love you, and go the extra mile for you.
But if that’s not what you’re getting, you better think
twice if he is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.
You can break every relationship down to the basics –
you’re holding hands or you’re not, meaning he’s there for you or he’s not.
It’s that simple.
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He’s irritated when you speak
Whatever you say, it’s stupid to him. If you talk
about your company and the great things that you’ve achieved at work and he
still thinks it’s stupid, then your man doesn’t respect you.
Just imagine how he would feel if you did the same
thing to him? He’d probably leave you the second you told him that he was
boring. You don’t deserve someone who will disrespect you like this.
You deserve a loving and caring man who’ll be your
support. So, don’t let him belittle you just so he can feel okay.
He should know that the key to a great relationship is
actually good communication and that you two should be open about everything.
Tell him that in case he is not in love with you
anymore, he can move on and have a great life, but this time without you.
You shouldn’t be only one fighting for your
relationship – it’s a two-way street.
You suspect he’s cheating on you
There are men who are prone to cheating, and they
never change. So, if your guy never showed interest for other women and he does
now, it’s time to face the fact that he’s changed and that he wants different
things now.
If he is sending you mixed signals and most of them
signal that he might be cheating on you, it’s probably the case.
Also, if you have evidence that reveals his
infidelity, you should be worried.
The thing is, women can sense when their men cheat on
them. So if you think something isn’t right, it probably isn’t.
You can see it by his changed behavior, his
indifference, his lack of communication, and in the end, his lack of love.
If he doesn’t want to have sex with you, it can be a
subtle sign that he has found love in another place.
On the other hand, if he wants to have more sex than
usual, showing some new moves, that’s also cause for concern because he had to
have learned them somewhere.
Try to get to the bottom of it, and if it does turn
out that he’s being unfaithful, leave him as soon as possible. Don’t let him
make a fool out of you; you don’t deserve that.
He criticizes you most of the time
It’s one thing when someone criticizes you to help you
become better and stronger.
That’s called constructive criticism. There is
nothing mean or harmful in that.
Actually, you’ll have no problems discerning whether
someone is criticizing you for your own good or just to hurt you.
If your husband is constantly up your business about
things you cannot change, like your looks or your personality, and if he
doesn’t let go even after telling him he’s hurting and insulting you, then his
“benevolent” words are actually designed to undermine you.
It’s a common tactic that men who don’t have the guts
to break something off on their own use to get you to leave first.
That’s how they can blame everything on you later on
when you leave.
They’ll say it’s not them, it’s you – you were the one
who left, while no one actually knows what he did to you to get you to that
point.
What to do if the signs are right?
First off, it’s important to realize that people
change. While the man you are living with may have been all charming and sweet
at the beginning of the relationship, he can transform into a completely
different person over the years.
Just know that it is better if you find out that your
husband doesn’t love you sooner rather than later, instead of being in that
relationship for the rest of your life.
When you realize your marriage isn’t what it was
supposed to be, it will be much easier to let go of it all and find your
happiness elsewhere, without him.
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civilized fashion.
Then if you can’t reach consensus, try therapy. Maybe
you need someone to help you communicate with each other in order to solve your
problems.
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dusted: go your separate ways.
Making the move is so much better than suffering for
the rest of your life. This way you’ll definitely find happiness, even if you
think you won’t.
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