Even though we’re all capable of experiencing love, it
seems like the road from “I’m infatuated with you” to “I want to spend the rest
of my life with you” varies from person to person. And as you may expect, it’s
a little different between men and women. While women love feeling appreciated,
secure, and desirable in their relationship, there are other signs for men that
signify that they’ve got serious chemistry with someone.
If you’re a guy who wants to know if this is real, or
a significant other who wants to know if this guy is truly into you, here are
six signs you’ll want to look out for.
He’ll be a lot less cautious with throwing
out the “L” bomb.
This may be hard to believe, especially based on everything you’ve ever learned
from romantic comedies, but science has proven that men fall in love faster
than women and are more prone to let them know. This is because women are a lot
more cautious about having their heart broken. According to a study by
Marissa A. Harrison and Jennifer C. Shortall, most people think women fall
harder and faster, but they’re actually not, in their words, “fools for love”
the way society portrays them. So if you’re a woman who thinks he’s just
playing you when he releases his feelings early on, that might not actually be
the case. He’s probably quite sincere.
He starts spending more time with you, and
less time out.
He
may use an excuse like, “I’m just tired and want a night in,” but the truth is
that he’s completely content just being in the same room with you—even if it’s
doing nothing. He doesn’t need to go outside for happiness or entertainment,
and that means he’s really falling for you. This is a really big sign, since it
means he’ll risk having fear of missing out for an evening that his friends may
think is a little boring. You’ve changed his entire perspective of a fun night.
While he seemed to be about looks at
first, he’ll suddenly be a lot more appreciative of the traits you have in
common.
Guys notice looks—that should be no secret. And even in a poll by Women’s
Health, a women’s face was the very first thing that attracted most men. But
even though he may have been clued into you based on appearance, he’ll start
noticing and appreciating all of your other qualities later on. He’ll stop
caring whether or not you dress up for him, and won’t mind dates at home,
watching Netflix and snarking on the latest streaming show. It’s around this
time he’ll realize that you’re more than just a face — you’re someone he’s falling
in love with.
Dates go from being dinners out, to life
experiences.
When
you do something that’s major—say, a long-distance road trip, or a weekend
skydiving—you don’t want to tarnish those memories with someone who isn’t the
one. So if a guy starts suggesting dates that the two of you will both remember
for the rest of your lives, it’s proof that he thinks you’ll both last quite
some time. Even if he has yet to say, “I love you,” it shows that he sees you
as a longterm relationship. Why visit a country overseas with someone who’s
merely a fling? Won’t you want to go with someone you’ll imagine reflecting on
the trip with years later?
They constantly take note of your praise.
Guys
like compliments. Doesn’t everyone? They shouldn’t be complimented for
everyday tasks like taking the garbage out, but if they’re with someone who
makes a big deal out of that amazing work promotion, they’ll notice it and feel
even more connected. So if you’re the type of person who notices that your guy
is working harder than normal, sincerely praising him will differentiate you
from other partners in the past. And if it boosts his ego a little bit, he’s
more likely to feel the love.
But honestly, many men often know right
off the bat.
Since
they fall faster, men often know from day one if they’re with somebody they
want to spend the rest of their lives with. So, even though most instances of
love at first site end up being more like infatuation for women, men may have
better luck at proving it’s true. Back in 2014, Cosmopolitan interviewed
three men about when they knew it was love, and most of them stated that
it didn’t take long at all. “From the first time we hung out, our relationship
always felt perfect and progressed so naturally that there was never one
specific time when I thought, I think I love this girl,” one of them said. “I
think it would be more accurate for me to say there was never a time that I
didn’t love her,” another stated. So if you’re a guy who’s wondering whether or
not you’re falling in love, just know most guys aren’t thinking that hard about
it. When you know, you know.
In short, men aren’t shy when it comes to real love. It’s always a little nerve-wracking to talk about feelings with someone new, but in general, guys tend to just go for it. It’s not as common for them to keep crushes a secret, and they can usually tell by first glance if someone is worth getting to know on a romantic level.
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