Welcome to a step-by-step guide on how to deal with a negative spouse, as written by someone who’s lived to tell the tale.
To say that living with a negative person and having
to walk on eggshells is exhausting is a huge understatement.
Some years back, when I was still with my ex, I was in
a similar situation. The person I had met completely vanished within a few
months of us being together.
His initial positivity and everything he
was passionate about turned into a never-ending bad mood, filled with negative
energy, and it was a really hard time for me.
All I could think was: “What do I do? What’s
going on with the person I was hoping to one day have a happy marriage with?”
I couldn’t handle my own thoughts, as being with your
negative spouse (or life partner) regularly and having no escape messes
with your mental health BIG time.
I wasn’t just going to give up, though.
I’ve always been a perfectionist, which means I gave
it my all to find a way out of that black hole. I mean, what do you do
when your loved one is constantly overwhelmed with negative emotions?
If you want to make it work, you push through it. You
go to marriage counseling. You try super hard not to let his negative attitude
rub off on you.
Below, I’ll discuss how I made the best out of a bad
situation. We ultimately didn’t work out (for different reasons), but
these tips were a HUGE game-changer.
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A Handy Guide On How To Deal With A Negative Spouse
Don’t let their negativity ruin your
well-being. Regain your positive energy and put yourself in the BEST situation
to help your spouse with these life-changing tips.
Never take their negativity personally
It’s rarely about you. It’s almost always about their
inner struggles. They direct it at you, as you live with them, but it’s never
something to take personally.
That’s what helped me stay sane. I focused on myself
and all the ways that I could help myself feel better.
If my partner chooses negativity, fine. That doesn’t
have to be my reality. While it can be challenging living with someone
like that, you can always choose how much you let them affect you.
Granted, this is a temporary solution, but the steps
below go into much more detail on how to handle a negative spouse.
Let your positive energy prevail
If you’re a naturally positive person, let that
prevail every day. The moment your spouse comes home and brings that negative
energy, shift your focus onto something positive.
Let’s say they had a bad day at work (surprise, surprise!)
and complained from the moment they walked through the door. Say that it sucks
for them, but you just made their favorite meal, which you’re sure will make
them feel better!
This is just one example that may or may not
work. The point is to replace their negative patterns with your
positive ones. Be happy and try to give them a reason to smile.
Hopefully, that can be enough, at least until you
figure out your next course of action.
Figure out what’s going on before judging them
Has something recently happened that may have caused
them to turn severely negative suddenly?
Could it be trouble at work, issues with family
members, or something financial in nature?
There has to be a reason for their behavior. Nobody
just wakes up and decides that they’ll be grumpy from today onward.
If you feel like they won’t be straight with you, try
to figure it out on your own. Who knows, you just might be onto something.
Dealing with a negative spouse doesn’t always have to
be a problem. Sometimes, it takes figuring out their inner issue and helping
them get on top of it.
Listen to them carefully and see if you can help out in any way
Listen to the words that they’re saying. Your spouse
might be unwilling to say exactly what is going on, but they might accidentally
give you a hint.
My advice is to listen carefully. You might uncover a
lot more than you think you will. And with a little bit of luck, you might even
be able to help in some way.
Focus on all their POSITIVE traits (and
remind them too)
You married them, so there MUST be something positive
about them! So, how did they win you over?
It can be difficult to reminisce about the happier
times right now but try. That way, you’ll uncover so many happy memories that
you’ve suppressed due to their sudden negative emotions.
You used to have a happy marriage, and
your spouse used to make you very happy, right?
If you go back to those times and remind yourself (and
them) of how great things were not so long ago, it might be the kick they
needed to get back to who they were.
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