One thing I know for sure about men is that when you start ignoring them, they instantly start missing you. So, if you want to get your ex back or make your man want you more, you should simply ignore him to get his attention.
Relationships are tricky. And sometimes you need to
come up with good strategies in order to get a guy’s attention.
Maybe you are in a long-term relationship that
just hit a rough patch—he is distant, and you feel like he is losing interest.
He seems to be pulling away, and you don’t know how to handle the situation.
Maybe you are just beginning a new relationship and
you don’t want to ruin it by being too clingy. You want everything to flow
smoothly, but even though it is still too early to say anything, you feel like
he is pulling away.
Take a deep breath. And slow down.
Most women would overreact. They would make some
stupid moves in order to get the guy’s attention.
But you won’t because I will reveal to you some
secrets and teach you how to ignore a guy to get his attention, even
though it might feel now like a lost cause.
For situations like this, for a ‘disease’
called pulling away, you need the secret ‘medicine’ called IGNORE.
Even though it seems simple and quite obvious, believe
me—when emotions are involved, you will have a difficult time controlling your
actions.
Sometimes you even catch yourself doing things you
swore you never would.
If somebody told you a story about a girl who was
texting a guy even though he was not texting her back (or something similar),
you would probably say: “I would never do that. Is she crazy? If I was in that
situation I would ignore him completely.”
But here you are, doing the same thing—even though you
said you wouldn’t. And that simple ‘ignore him to get his attention’ seems so
difficult.
Does Ignoring Someone Get Their Attention?
If your presence doesn’t hold someone’s attention,
ignoring them definitely will. The silent treatment is a very awful
and painful ordeal, but at the same time, it’s very effective if you want to
get someone’s full attention.
It can really drive a man crazy, especially when it
comes from a person you honestly love. Your mind becomes totally occupied with
that one person who ignores you.
Ignoring him to get his attention is a very powerful
tool you can use to bring your ex back and I’m sure it won’t backfire on you IF
you do it in the right way. Just hit that ignore button and you’ll see that
it’ll provoke a reaction from your man earlier than expected.
How To Ignore Him To Get His Attention? 7
Simple Methods
Use ‘ignore’ in the right way. Start with yourself,
then gradually work your way to getting what you want from him.
Here are some relationship tips to make the mission of ‘ignore him to get his attention‘ more likely to succeed:
1. Ignore the need to have exaggerated
emotional displays
This is a trap many women fall into. They think that
guys experience emotions the same way they do. Then, they show all of their
emotions too soon.
That’s exactly a reason why men pull away at
the beginning of a relationship. The fact is that they operate on a different
level to women.
It usually takes them more time to figure things out
for themselves and to be sure about their emotions before sharing them.
If you are upfront with your emotions or
exaggerate with emotional displays, it might be the reason he is taking a
different direction.
Too much honesty will simply make him run
as fast as he can.
So, take it slow. Timing is everything. Slow down to
his pace, and only start showing emotions when he is ready to show them, too.
Make sure you are at the same level. By displaying
your love and attachment too soon in a relationship, you might send signals
that you are insecure or desperate.
By giving him space and time to think, you are maybe
on the right track of giving you a shot of loving each other.
When you ignore him, he will probably start wondering why you changed, and why you are not giving him as much attention as before and, here comes the twist you’ve been waiting for, that will grab his full attention and make him go after you.
2. Ignore the need to overreact
Most women tend to jump to conclusions.
Maybe nothing is wrong, but you imagine it might be
because he didn’t text back right away or he didn’t put a heart emoji
at the end of a goodnight message.
Whatever you do, first make sure that a reason to
worry and to react actually exists and that you need to react in some way.
Constant complaints and making noise all the time
about the little things can make him run as fast as he can. Nobody wants to
hear constant whining, especially for no reason.
Choose your battles wisely. If you really
have an issue, you need to address it with him and make sure it’s a valid one.
If he hurts you in any way, you should
tell him openly. However, exaggeration might suffocate a relationship.
You want him to see you as a woman who doesn’t
overthink his every word.
Your life is your own, and you don’t have time to
obsess about every little thing he does. You should only want to solve bigger
problems.
He might even be surprised or concerned about why you didn’t react to the things you would normally lose your mind about.
3. Stop ignoring yourself, and he will
stop ignoring you too
Put yourself first. Don’t be too attentive to his
needs and don’t jump to every phone call and every last-minute invitation he
gives you.
You don’t need to act busy. You need to be busy—busy
with yourself.
Make your own life function the way you want it to.
Always have a clear image of who you are and pay attention to your needs,
too. Stop seeking validation from others and become a part of your
own support system.
You have your studies, your friends and family, your
work, your career plans, your activities, and your interests—regardless of him.
You need to have your own life, and, of course,
he should be an important part of it. If you are too accommodating, he will get
used to it.
He will take your time for granted and naturally
assume that you will always make time for him.
He should be the one adjusting his plans to fit your
schedule—at least sometimes.
You don’t need to bend over backward to fit into his
plans all the time. Compromise is always a good thing but don’t ever make him
think you don’t have your own life.
The truth is that most men want a strong and
independent woman who will know how to arrange her priorities well. A
woman who’ll make spending time with him one of her top priorities but not her
one and only priority.
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4. Stop ignoring your wishes
Take charge. Make road trip plans. Make dinner plans.
Book tickets to see a movie he would be interested in. Buy tickets to a concert
with some musician you both like.
Make any plans that you consider would be interesting
for the both of you. Say you organized some activity and ask him to join you.
Most women are used to men making all the
arrangements.
This is a way to show him that you
are self-sufficient and able to organize activities, and you would very
much like him to join you.
The crucial thing here is to say, “If you can’t go,
that’s OK. I will ask some of my friends to go with me, cause I really wanna
go.“ Keep it casual.
It will make him wonder, “What friends?” And you will show him that you are capable of having fun without him. This is a very subtle way of ignoring him to get his attention.
5. Play the ‘hot and cold’ game
If you are constantly ignoring him, he will tire of it
after some time. He will think that he’s dealing with a narcissist and that he
is hitting a brick wall. It’ll make him think that there’s no way that he has
any chance with you.
So give him some hints that there might be hope for
him after all. You played the role of an ice queen but from time to time, give
him hints that you have a warm heart underneath.
Engage in conversation with him when you
have a chance. Show him you are interested in what he has to say.
Let him feel like what he is saying is so
captivating that you don’t want to miss a single word.
You can also do it over text. Simply send him a text
message and ask him about something he has some information about and you don’t
(just don’t make it too obvious).
If you see that your hints of attention are making him
want to talk to you more or text you more all of a sudden, you are on the right
path to nailing your ‘ignore him to get his attention‘ mission.
Make a balance between ignoring him and giving him
some attention. You don’t want to act as a cold narcissist but you also don’t
want to come off as needy.
Play the effective mind game of hot and cold, give him just enough to keep him hooked but not too much. Remember that balance is the key.
6. Spark his jealousy
Men are very competitive and sometimes all they need
is a bit of jealousy to make them get up and go after you.
He might not even see what he has right in front of
him until there is a threat that somebody else may take it away.
So, flirt, but in a way where you give your attention
to others. Talk to some other man, smile a lot, touch his shoulder and have
your focus only on him.
Make sure your man can see you talking to
some other guy and don’t pay attention to anything other than the guy you are
talking to.
Sparking jealousy is one of the most dangerous
tactics because it might send him a message that you are uninterested or that
you are interested in somebody else.
So make sure not to overdo the flirting game too much as jealousy will only drive him away. You need just a spark, not a massive fire.
7. Follow his lead
If he is ignoring your text messages, don’t ask him
why he does that. Do the same—don’t text him. Don’t call. Don’t stalk him on
social media. Don’t insist. Don’t force things. It’s useless.
He will be more interested when he doesn’t hear from you
than when you send text after text, trying to get to the bottom of things.
Ignoring him makes him wonder where you disappeared
to. It forms a million questions in his head. It makes you seem like a puzzle
and he will be eager to solve it.
And when you are too available, it does
the opposite and it won’t definitely help you to get his full attention.
He knows where you are, what you think and he knows that him
not messaging you bothers you.
So he has the upper hand in that situation, even when
he has no clue what’s happening and thinks that you probably don’t even care if
he responds to your text or not.
He will respond eventually, and when he does, take
your precious time in answering. Don’t make him think that you have been
waiting by the phone for him to remember you exist.
Never let him see that you were upset because he didn’t text back. I know that these mind games can be exhausting but they are sometimes necessary.
Do Guys Notice When You Ignore Them?
Trust me, not only he’ll notice it but it’ll drive him
completely crazy. It’ll bother him even more than you think. Needless to say,
that’s only if you do it in the right way.
A high-quality man, the one who truly loves you and
wants you in his life will always notice when something is off in your relationship.
He’ll try to understand the reasons for your behavior first and then he’ll do
everything to make things right again.
Do you notice when he ignores you? Of course, you do because you have strong feelings for him and can’t stand the thought that he might be driving away from you.
Will A Man Come Back If You Ignore Him?
If you want to get your ex back or to make him miss
you, most relationship experts would probably give you the following
relationship advice; ignore him to get his attention.
I agree that it’s a very effective relationship tip
and it’s true that it works in most cases. But, and this is a huge and very
important BUT, the truth is that no matter what you do, he’ll never come back
to you if his feelings for you have disappeared.
On the flip side, if it’s true love, if your man
still shares deep and honest romantic feelings for you, he’ll react to your
ignoring right away because he won’t allow himself to lose the woman he loves.
He’ll come back to you for sure and all of this will only bring you closer. It’ll strengthen your relationship and prove that your love is so strong that it can overcome all obstacles. Your love life will bloom again.
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man’s.
How do you communicate your true feelings to a man? And why are men so
sensitive to tiny signals about where you rank him compared with other men?
To dive a little deeper into that particular question, I put together a
video presentation on the topic.
It explains the most powerful signals you can use to grab a man’s attention.
After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn how much
control they have over a man’s self-esteem.
And even more surprised by how easy it is to make someone cherish you
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